Advice

Happy 4th of July everyone! We had a nice weekend. A weekend full of family events! A 4th of July picnic, a Baptism and a bridal shower all in one weekend. It was busy, but lots of fun. To celebrate independence day, we colored a flag. Tyler was not impressed that he couldn't color it green and orange :-) We also made brownies baked into an ice cream cone. It was so much fun! We decorated them with red/white/blue sprinkles. They were a big hit! I am happy to report that both boys cooperated well and we had a fun time making these! :)
So at the bridal shower this weekend we played a great game. Everyone writes a piece or two of advice for the new bride. In attendance at this shower were all of my aunts and great aunts, my grandma and a few cousins too. The bride then reads all of the advice out loud. I just thought I'd share some of the memorable ones with you! Some of the good serious ones included:
-marriage is like the ocean, it ebbs and it tides.
-always take care of yourself, if you are worn down you are no help to anyone.
-marriage is not 50/50 it's 100/100.
-when the going gets tough, think of 5 things you are thankful for.
-marriage is about giving.
-always keep your sense of humor.
Now the hilarious ones!
-it's not about his jobs or her jobs...just tell him what to do!(from my fiesty grandma)
-if you are tired, send him to bed first! (from her fiesty sister)
-the man be the head of the family, but the woman is the neck!
-always give your husband the attention he needs/deserves (then this person's gift was a silky nightie! :)
-keep a journal of where you spend each holiday, it will save an argument next year.
I hope you enjoyed these as much as I did !~:)